Valentine's Day is very different from what it used to be, for me. Heck, every day is different from what it used to be. Kids just do that. It isn't a bad thing. It isn't horrible. It just is. I saw a couple today walking through the store hand in hand. They were young and, I'm assuming, college age. It took me back to when Rick and I were first dating. I remember those days so fondly. We met in college. We would walk around the store hand in hand, all sorts of lovey dovey. Our Valentine's Days were surrounded with as much sappy sweetness as expected. Flowers, chocolates, love songs, slow dances, and on and on and on.
And while those feelings are just as strong now, as they were then, we just don't have the time to display them like we did. *If* we are in a store together, there are usually two small children with us. Instead of walking hand in hand, one of us is attempting to control the children and the other is trying to quickly throw things into a cart and get us the heck out the store, ASAP! There is no more wandering around, gazing deeply into each other's eyes, and dreaming of the day we are married with kids. That day has arrived like a thousand galloping horses!
And while it never quite turns out just like you expect, I have to say Rick and I ended up pretty lucky.
We have this sweet boy who just smiles non-stop:
This incredibly talented little girl is going to do a kick ass job decorating my nursing home room, when I'm old:
Sometimes I feel bad that Rick and I aren't still those two college kids anymore. I definitely long for the pre-kids Saturdays, where we slept in, laid in bed til noon and watched way too much MTV Room Raiders.
Friday night is our date night. Maybe I can find some Room Raiders on DVD or something and we can recreate those Saturday mornings....
NAH! I'm not turning down a kid free meal for lazy bed time.
I did get these beauties this morning:
The colors are perfect. I love purples mashed with yellow and orange. They are quilt inspiring.
And Emma and I turned this:
into this:
We used a Tasty Kitchen recipe. You can check it out here. I used semi sweet/white chocolate swirl chips and coconut creme pudding. And I refuse to admit how much has been eaten.
My Valentine's Day definitely are not the Valentine's Day of yesteryear. And I couldn't be happier about it.
Namaste
~SLBY
